Saturday, July 30, 2011

 
    这是真的。

    有个村庄的小康之家的女孩子,生得美,有许多人来做媒,但都没有说成。那年她
不过十五六岁吧,是春天的晚上,她立在后门口,手扶着桃树。她记得她穿的是一件月
白的衫子。对门住的年轻人同她见过面,可是从来没有打过招呼的,他走了过来。离得
不远,站定了,轻轻的说了一声:“噢,你也在这里吗?”她没有说什么,他也没有再
说什么,站了一会,各自走开了。
 
    就这样就完了。

    后来这女人被亲眷拐子卖到他乡外县去作妻,又几次三番地被转卖,经过无数的惊
险的风波,老了的时候她还记得从前那一回事,常常说起,在那春天的晚上,在后门口
的桃树下,那年轻人。

    于千万人之中遇见你所遇见的人,于千万年之中,时间的无涯的荒野里,没有早一
步,也没有晚一步,刚巧赶上了,那也没有别的话可说,惟有轻轻地问一声:“噢,你
也在这里吗?”

    (原刊1944年4月《杂志》月刊第13卷第1期)
 
                               ~摘于《张爱玲散文集 - 流言》

这是理解这篇小散文的核心,因为是瞬间,才成为永恒,永恒地珍惜,永恒地回味。千万人之中的偶然相遇,千万年之中的巧遇,偶然的相逢,这宿命的温情定格于瞬间。“就这样就完了。”本身已经包含了无尽的惆怅,张爱玲在情感最炽热的时候,在截取最浪漫的瞬间之时,也没有忘却爱的漂渺与不确定、短暂,——还是张爱玲。~宋家宏赏析 

Sunday, July 24, 2011

香港名DJ 梁继璋给儿子的信

前几天在在报章上看到这篇 《香港名DJ 梁继璋给儿子的信》
借分享 :)

我儿:写这备忘录给你,基于三个原则:
(一)人生福祸无常,谁也不知可以活多久, 有些事情还是早一点说好。
(二)我是你的父亲,我不跟你說,沒有人会跟你說。
(三)这备忘录都是我经过惨痛失败得到的体验, 可以为你的成长省回不少冤枉路。
 
以下,便是你在人生中要好好记住的事:



(一)对你不好的人,你不要太介意。         
在你一生中,沒有人有义务要对你好,除了我和你妈妈。至于那些对你好的人,你除了要珍惜、感恩外,也请多防备一点,因为,每个人做每一件事,总有一个原因,他对你好,未必真的是因为喜欢你,请你必须搞清楚,而不必太快把对方看作真朋友。

(二)沒有人是不可代替,沒有东西是是必须拥有的。   
看透了这一点,将来你身边的人不再要你,或许失去了世间上最爱的一切时,也应该明白,这并不是什么大不了的事。

(三)生命是短暂的,今日你还在浪费着生命,不知不觉生命已经远离你了。   因此,愈早珍惜生命,你享受生命的日子也愈多,与其盼望长寿,倒不如早点享受。

(四)世界上并没有最爱这回事,爱情只是一种霎时的感觉。而这感觉绝对会随时日、心境而改变。如果你的所谓最爱离开你,请耐心地等候一下,让时日慢慢冲洗,让心灵慢慢沉淀,你的苦就会慢慢淡化。不要过分憧憬爱情的美,不要过分夸大失恋的悲。

(五)虽然,很多有成就的人士都沒有受过很多教育,但并不等于不用功读书,就一定可以成功。你学到的知识,就是你拥有的武器。人,可以白手起家,但不可以手无寸铁,谨记!

(六)我不会要求你供养我下半辈子,同样地,我也不会供养你的下半辈子,当你长大到可以独立的时候,我的责任已经完结。以后,你要坐巴士还是坐奔驰,吃鱼翅还是吃粉丝,都要自己负责。

(七)你可以要求自己守信,但不能要求別人守信。你可以要求自己对人好,但不能期待人家对你好。你怎樣对人,并不代表人家就会怎样对你,如果看不透这一点,你只会徒添不必要的烦恼。

(八)我买了十多二十年六合彩,还是一穷二白,连三奖也沒有中,这证明人要发达,还是要努力工作才可以,世界上沒有免费午餐

(九)亲人只有一次的缘分。无论这辈子我和你会相处多久,也请好好珍惜共聚的时光,下辈子,无论爱与不爱,都不会再见。

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Not For Sale ( Part 2)

Well..I delayed my post..Again ...
I'm demotivated to update my blog though
I have many thoughts in mind to write it out.
Okkay~I will continue with my last post.
Here goes my forth handmade present for my last uni roomie
Miss Wong
Actually I didn't have any material after making pink panther.
However, my dearest roomie requested a big big present
which is biger than Kai Xin one.
Yeah~I was being threathend..Imma so pity..sob sob..
So I gotta online order those materials.
Recommend u all the seller if u are interested on DIY stuffs
娃娃生活馆 
Facebook Page: 
My living box

Luckily, the parcel arrived in time before her bday^^

I don't mind to reveal my kampar address here
as I'm no more staying there..

I bought quiet a lot so I don't have to keep on ordering separately
and could save up the postal fee :)


I asked roomie in advance what the cartoon character she wanted
so I didn't have to torture my mind to think about it.
Dang Dang!! Here is the present ^^
The most unique milky cow in the world
that made by LLC.
U can't find exactly the same one ( design, words, etc.)
in the market
becoz it is from LLC..haha
so Miss wong u gotta feel proud..LOL



See my name there?though a bit ugly and senget..haha

 2011 label

The fifth handmade present
It was for my classmate Phebe

I know there's always a room of improvement for my sewing skill..
blek~

My last year and this year presents for her
are coincidence in pink color.

*Photos credit to Phebe as I forgot to take photos
hence I directly took them from her facebook.LOL

The sixth handmade 不织布 is for myself.
Like finally, yeah~It's for myself.
No doubt~It's owl again^^
My favourite all the time.
I brought it along with me to Redang^^



The seventh handmade present was a Peter Pan
for my best best friend Ngai Gee.
We both like Peter Pan so much when we were during secondary school.
Anyway, I hope she still likes it now.

I have it done by refering to this picha that found in google search.~

I spent few weeks to have it done.
stop. continue. stop. continue.
as I lost my enthusiasm on sewing stuffs now.


 However, I will still finish few more 
which I have already kept promises to them.
 
Before I end my post,
I would like to share some pichas^^

Peter: I want always to be a boy, and have fun.



Peter: Nice to meet u! Little Girl
Little Girl: Nice to meet u too! 
Peter: Can we be friend?
Little Girl : If you wish it. Are you a fairy?
Peter: I do believe in faries,I do,I do.Do you?
Little Girl: I do. 





Peter: Come with me where you'll never,never have to worry about grown up things. 
Little Girl: Never is an awfully long time.
 

Little Girl: I can't follow u. I belong to here. I have my family.
             I have my life. I have my own destiny.
             Nice to meet u but we have to say good bye to each other now.
             Believe me. U will always be a little boy who has fun.          
             This belongs to you, and always wil.
             Good Bye. Peter Pan. 
 
我们做的东西成了某个人的宝物,留在了某个人的心里,对我来说这样就足够了。 
By:信子 《野猪大改造)

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Not For Sale

Sorry that I have abandoned my blog for a long time
as I almost forget I have a blog.
Actually I have lots to blog about
but I just don't know where should I start
as my last semester definitely would be the most unforgettable
in my uni life :)

Okkay..I shall back to the topic.
Sometimes, we can use money to buy many things.
However, we can't use money to buy a friendship,
especially a genuine friend who will lend a hand to us whenever we are in need. 

It was the very last time for me being with my uni friends.
So I wished to make something different for them with the condition
my time allow me to do so.

 My 1st handmade present
a handmade card + ugly handmade Winnie The Pooh
I know it doesn't look like a Winnie The Pooh at all
but I have tried my best and it was my first time being very officially
to sew something.
And it took me more than half a day to make it done
as I wasn't so good in sewing.
And after I got it done, I was hesitate whether to send it out
as I personally perceived it was ugly.
However, finally I decided to send it out :)

*As I don't have yellow unwoven cloth, guess what I used?
Ding Dong!!
recyle bag :(


During the CNY, I went to Daiso in Malacca DP
and bought a pink color unwoven cloth.
Initially, I planned to make a lot of piggy like this to my friends.

However I changed my mind for Kai Xin's sake.
Her bday was one day before Valentine Day.
She and me are the single ladies in our hostel.
I started to imagine how lonely she would be just like me
while others have their programs and presents.
Plus I don't want her to keep remembering the past.
So I decided to make her a meaningful present.
 I used up few days (used to think to gv up on the half-way)
to make it
and this is probably the completed handmade thingy that
I am most satisfied with.

Darang Darang Darang Daadaadaarang......
My handmade Pink Panther :)


And the most special part is
the some wording are luminous at night :)



The third present is for Carmen.


As I just had one colour material on hand,
the scope of choices I could do definitely were limited.
Somemore, the pink panther has used up most of the material.
Quiet paiseh that I only able to afford doing a small elephant
with the limited material.
Choosing elephant was because Thailand would be the graduation trip for us.
so just wanna make it a memorable one.


However, I did make a small bag to fit the elephant inside
which others don't have :)

Well, I shall stop here
as it is not early ady.
Sorry that I didn't not make for everyone's birthday due to
lack of materials, rushing for assignments and so on.
I will update more by this week.
Stay tuned :)
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